When coming up with our name, it almost came too easy. At any event, whether it be your wedding day or baby shower, you always want to feel like the envy of the party. Not like Cinderella's evil step sisters kind of envy. But sexy, feminine and chic. There are so many ways, as females, that we can make ourselves feel beautiful for any occasion. Many times we take those "things" that we think make us look good, to another level and end up looking like hot messes. Lets face it, we're all vain in one way or another. Cats outta the bag! So here are some quick tips on how to achieve that 'damn i look good' feeling from the inside out:

- Coloring your hair at least a week before hand.

- We all love a sun kissed look! Spray tan at least 2 days before. And DON'T ask for the Snooki special.

- Get a mani/pedi and keep it natural looking. Not talking about color. In fact I love crazy color. Just no talons. That's gross.

- Add make- up! I love playing with makeup. But choose to accentuate either your eyes OR your lips. Not both.

- Drink lots of H2O to keep your skin looking dewy. Or if you're like me, wine and coffee. Ha!

- Waxing. A MUST do. But at least a week prior to avoid the not-so-hot red evidence lines.

- Plan your outfit ahead of time (shoes, accessories, the whole enchilada). Unless you want to get sister's old prom dress.

Here are some pics of women who CLEARLY didn't follow these guidelines: